Marriage Separation or Divorce ?
Overview
Although most people enter marriage planning to stay together for life, circumstances develop that leave one or both parties considering separation or divorce. The reasons for divorce are different for each couple, but some common themes exist.
Infidelity
If you or your partner are in love with someone else, your marriage is likely damaged beyond repair. A romantic or sexual affair that has ended can also harm your relationship if one spouse feels she can no longer trust her partner. Over time, trust can be regained by appropriate behavior and a willingness to communicate effectively. If you both want to remain married, sexual or emotional infidelity doesn't have to lead to a separation or divorce. Infidelity does, however, remain a leading cause of marital breakup, reports Divorce Magazine.
Patterns of Abuse
Physical abuse is always a good reason for divorce because it tends to escalate over time. Emotional abuse should not be tolerated either, especially if it leaves you frightened or diminishes your self-worth. Abusers often have severe personality disorders or mental health issues that can be difficult to treat, even if they seem apologetic and willing to change.
Addiction
Addictions, particularly substance abuse addictions such as drug and alcohol, can wreak havoc in the relationship. Substance abuse can cause your spouse to use poor judgment and behave differently than she did when you married. Her behavior might become frightening or cause so much chaos in your home that a crisis develops. Other types of addictions, such as gambling or pornography addiction, can cause problems in the marriage if significant financial resources or time together are squandered on the addiction. Many addicts are able to benefit from mental health treatment and have a successful long-term marriage but this requires effort and commitment on the part of both parties.
Conflict
A marriage rocked by frequent conflict can lead you to consider a separation or divorce. Some couples have a toxic relationship, marked by an inability to compromise and a mutual desire to "win," as if marriage were a competition. These individuals thrive on the drama of intense passion, whether fighting or reconciling. If you find yourself in a major fight about every month, whether it is about the same issues or new ones, insist that you both attend marital counseling to learn new ways to relate to each other and determine whether your marriage is worth saving.
Loss of Respect
Some marriages end because of one partner's loss of respect for the other partner or a mutual loss of respect. This is one indicator that the relationship might be over, explains Family Education. Loss of respect can come from poor decision-making or one spouse not meeting the expectations of the other. In some cases, counseling can help you regain mutual respect and save the marriage.
Overview
Although most people enter marriage planning to stay together for life, circumstances develop that leave one or both parties considering separation or divorce. The reasons for divorce are different for each couple, but some common themes exist.
Infidelity
If you or your partner are in love with someone else, your marriage is likely damaged beyond repair. A romantic or sexual affair that has ended can also harm your relationship if one spouse feels she can no longer trust her partner. Over time, trust can be regained by appropriate behavior and a willingness to communicate effectively. If you both want to remain married, sexual or emotional infidelity doesn't have to lead to a separation or divorce. Infidelity does, however, remain a leading cause of marital breakup, reports Divorce Magazine.
Patterns of Abuse
Physical abuse is always a good reason for divorce because it tends to escalate over time. Emotional abuse should not be tolerated either, especially if it leaves you frightened or diminishes your self-worth. Abusers often have severe personality disorders or mental health issues that can be difficult to treat, even if they seem apologetic and willing to change.
Addiction
Addictions, particularly substance abuse addictions such as drug and alcohol, can wreak havoc in the relationship. Substance abuse can cause your spouse to use poor judgment and behave differently than she did when you married. Her behavior might become frightening or cause so much chaos in your home that a crisis develops. Other types of addictions, such as gambling or pornography addiction, can cause problems in the marriage if significant financial resources or time together are squandered on the addiction. Many addicts are able to benefit from mental health treatment and have a successful long-term marriage but this requires effort and commitment on the part of both parties.
Conflict
A marriage rocked by frequent conflict can lead you to consider a separation or divorce. Some couples have a toxic relationship, marked by an inability to compromise and a mutual desire to "win," as if marriage were a competition. These individuals thrive on the drama of intense passion, whether fighting or reconciling. If you find yourself in a major fight about every month, whether it is about the same issues or new ones, insist that you both attend marital counseling to learn new ways to relate to each other and determine whether your marriage is worth saving.
Loss of Respect
Some marriages end because of one partner's loss of respect for the other partner or a mutual loss of respect. This is one indicator that the relationship might be over, explains Family Education. Loss of respect can come from poor decision-making or one spouse not meeting the expectations of the other. In some cases, counseling can help you regain mutual respect and save the marriage.
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